Good is an enemy of best...

Sometimes in life all we need do is just have someone talk to us, motivate us or provoke us to want to do good/more good.
 As you step out today, I want to put this in your sub-concious mind; don't be satisfied with being good. Thirst for to be the best,there is still enough room for people who want to work their way up there. Good is an enemy to best, don't be okay with just being a good student, a good staff, a good Dad or a Good wife. Work to attain excellence. You have come too far to settle for just good cos Good is an enemy to best. You can be the best in your field,school,office,company. You can become a force to reckon with just keep working like you have not achieved anything and before you know it you'll have achieved almost everything.

Have a fruitful week.      
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HOW TO GET A LADY TO SAY “YES”.

                      HOW TO GET A LADY TO SAY “YES”.

If after reading this article, you still haven’t won your lady’s heart, then there is something wrong with you somewhere.

In one of his recent interviews on CNN, the richest comedian of our time {BILL COSBY} said he doesn’t know the secrets to success but he knows the secrets to failure. I might not tell you how to propose to a lady but I will tell you HOW NOT TO PROPOSE to a lady.   There is no specific way of proposing to a lady. Its just a kind of a freestyle thing. You just need to take note of some SILENT points.

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   This is for the spirit filled. I mean the BRO and SIS in our churches/mosques/fellowships. Don’t EVER go to a lady saying “God said”. If you do this ,you are giving her an impression that you never noticed/liked/loved her, God just sent you to do her a favor by proposing to her.

Ø  Be serious minded. Have something {worthwhile} that you do. The bible says “see ye any that is diligent in his work he shall stand before kings and princes. Except you want to propose to an insolent/gold-digger/I never chop. You can’t be planning to start dating/courting a lady and you don’t have a job. How do you afford dinners, gifts, etc?? Even if she likes you and is ready to kick-off a relationship, what will she tell her friends and family when they ask her “what does your man do for a living?” 

Ø  Don’t ever propose to a lady writing letters/notes. She needs to feel your confidence. She needs to know how real you are. Some ladies will even want to see the expression on your face. You could propose to her in a romantic/humorous way.

Ø  Don’t ever send your/her friend. Go to her yourself, she ain’t feeling you but the person actually talking to her.

Ø  Don’t prose on assumptions. Don’t play your cards thinking one thing will lead to another. Some guys assume they are dating already and later become heart-broken.

Ø  Don’t propose by threat. BROS you don’t have to apply force/threat before she can say yes. Threatening her only makes you a vagabond. 

Ø  Don’t propose to someone you don’t know. You cant just go ahead and propose to a lady you don’t know. I once made that mistake and believe me it never ended well. Some of these ladies you see are not really what they seem to be. Get the product, take it home and you will discover its not what you really bargained for. You will discover a thousand thing you never noticed about her. So it is advisable to date someone you know, possibly a friend.

Ø  Don’t propose because of outer beauty. Most guys tend to ask a lady out [propose] because of what they see. She might be beautiful, caring but beware she might also be blessed with some STUPID attitudes. So its paramount you get to know her very well. A Chinese proverb says “inner beauty is true beauty”

Ø  Don’t plan proposing when you STOLE her number/bb pin. If you really want something good out of the relationship I will advise you don’t start up like that.
 

Ø  FINALLY,don’t propose using big words [vocabulary]. Use simple and straight words to express yourself. Just be yourself and try to picture your feelings.

                                                                    

sometimes in our lives. we often find ourselves in some kind of difficult situations,and we wish we have somebody we can talk to. well, its one the reasons why we are here. for you!!! so feel free to contact us. God bless us all.

YOUR BEST FRIEND

A friend in need is a friend indeed. A friend is someone who has your interests at heart, someone you can talk to about your problems. A friend is someone who has or is having a positive impact in your life. Sometimes our best friends are not our spouses,parents/guardians or family members. A friend is someone who lends you a shoulder to lean on. A friend is someone who can stick out his neck for you. A friend can just be anybody,take for instance; the past 3 weeks has been the most horrible for me,but it made me realised who my best friend is. I observed that most of our actions, behavioral problems are guidelined by the advice, ideas and suggestions of our friends. Ben Carson once said " who we are is majorly determined by the books we read and the people in our lives. Some people find it very convenient to have pets or inanimate objects as their friends. I am not against it. When I was younger my diary used to be my friend.
Dear reader, if you're in ANY form of relationship that's not impacting you positively then you should run, fly away from such... I'm not writing much cos I have to get back to completing a write up. Stay blessed.

Those closer to us are meant to know us better,but sometimes its not just so.....