HOW TO GET A LADY TO SAY “YES”.

                      HOW TO GET A LADY TO SAY “YES”.

If after reading this article, you still haven’t won your lady’s heart, then there is something wrong with you somewhere.

In one of his recent interviews on CNN, the richest comedian of our time {BILL COSBY} said he doesn’t know the secrets to success but he knows the secrets to failure. I might not tell you how to propose to a lady but I will tell you HOW NOT TO PROPOSE to a lady.   There is no specific way of proposing to a lady. Its just a kind of a freestyle thing. You just need to take note of some SILENT points.

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   This is for the spirit filled. I mean the BRO and SIS in our churches/mosques/fellowships. Don’t EVER go to a lady saying “God said”. If you do this ,you are giving her an impression that you never noticed/liked/loved her, God just sent you to do her a favor by proposing to her.

Ø  Be serious minded. Have something {worthwhile} that you do. The bible says “see ye any that is diligent in his work he shall stand before kings and princes. Except you want to propose to an insolent/gold-digger/I never chop. You can’t be planning to start dating/courting a lady and you don’t have a job. How do you afford dinners, gifts, etc?? Even if she likes you and is ready to kick-off a relationship, what will she tell her friends and family when they ask her “what does your man do for a living?” 

Ø  Don’t ever propose to a lady writing letters/notes. She needs to feel your confidence. She needs to know how real you are. Some ladies will even want to see the expression on your face. You could propose to her in a romantic/humorous way.

Ø  Don’t ever send your/her friend. Go to her yourself, she ain’t feeling you but the person actually talking to her.

Ø  Don’t prose on assumptions. Don’t play your cards thinking one thing will lead to another. Some guys assume they are dating already and later become heart-broken.

Ø  Don’t propose by threat. BROS you don’t have to apply force/threat before she can say yes. Threatening her only makes you a vagabond. 

Ø  Don’t propose to someone you don’t know. You cant just go ahead and propose to a lady you don’t know. I once made that mistake and believe me it never ended well. Some of these ladies you see are not really what they seem to be. Get the product, take it home and you will discover its not what you really bargained for. You will discover a thousand thing you never noticed about her. So it is advisable to date someone you know, possibly a friend.

Ø  Don’t propose because of outer beauty. Most guys tend to ask a lady out [propose] because of what they see. She might be beautiful, caring but beware she might also be blessed with some STUPID attitudes. So its paramount you get to know her very well. A Chinese proverb says “inner beauty is true beauty”

Ø  Don’t plan proposing when you STOLE her number/bb pin. If you really want something good out of the relationship I will advise you don’t start up like that.
 

Ø  FINALLY,don’t propose using big words [vocabulary]. Use simple and straight words to express yourself. Just be yourself and try to picture your feelings.